Thursday, April 30, 2020

Pandemic Blues



Today is Thursday, April 30, 2020
- We are at 48 days of social isolation.
- The dollar is worth $ 5.32, the euro $ 5.77 and the pound $ 6.54.
- Gas is $2.60 on average near us 
- Schools have been closed since mid-March and are teaching remotely on-line. This will continue for the rest of the school year.
- There are lines/tapes inside the stores to keep people 6 feet apart.
- Bars and restaurants only for home delivery & pick-up.
- Parks, beaches, and walk-in places are not accessible to the public.
- All sports competitions have been canceled.
- All festivals and entertainment events have been banned.
- Weddings, family celebrations, and birthdays have been canceled. Funerals are limited to 10 people.
- People are doing drive-by parades to celebrate birthdays!
- Young kids can’t understand why they can only see grandparents & other extended family and friends on a screen or thru a window if someone visits in person. 
- Hugs and kisses are not given.
- All church meetings are canceled and the temple is closed.
- We have to stay at least one meter or more away from each other.
- There is a shortage of masks and gloves in hospitals.
- There are fewer ventilators than there should be.
- People are wearing masks in public, some places even REQUIRE that you wear them to enter! 
- Toilet paper, hand sanitizer, antibacterial wipes, and anything Lysol or Clorox is in short supply and limited per person... IF you can even find them!
- Stores are closing early to disinfect everything. (24-hour stores are even closing by 9pm)
- Store checkouts, pharmacies, and even fast food drive-thru windows have added plexiglass between employee and customer. Have to reach around or under to pay!
- You can't find isopropyl alcohol, toilet paper, or hand sanitizer easily. .. supply per person is limited.
- Australia, USA, and Europe have closed their borders.
- Western Australia has been divided into 9 territories & an instant $1,500 fine issued for crossing the border without a valid reason. (Transport workers, Essential services, etc)
- No one is traveling for leisure. Airports are empty. Tourism has the worst crisis in history.

The above is just a snapshot of the effects of COVID-19 on the world. As for me, I'm seriously starting to go nuts. I am normally a very optimistic and productive person. But the last few days, I literally have ZERO motivation to do anything productive. I feel like I just wander around the house half the day, looking for something to do! Steve is working from home, the boys have classes most of the day every day, Olivia is taking two online classes and working full time as a nurse's aide at a local convalescent home. But all my post-graduation plans of substitute teaching came to a screeching halt when this all hit and I'm really struggling to find my purpose and spend my days in meaningful ways. 

I decided this morning that I needed to start making a list of a few "real" things to get done each day. So today, I organized my cookbook shelf. 
Here's the "Before"

And the "After"!
I sewed the binding on a couple of baby quilts I made over the last few months. 



Also on my list for the day... "sit outside in the sun and read for an hour", which I did!



I'm fed up with politicians and the feeling of our civil liberties being stripped away. Today it was announced that all California beaches and state parks are closing indefinitely. I just don't get it. It feels very political in many ways and I am trying really hard to not get sucked into that black hole of anxiety and frustration.

One bright spot has been all the hilarious memes floating around regarding the Coronavirus. Here's just a couple from the last couple of days that gave me a chuckle! 




Monday, April 20, 2020

COVID-19 Pandemic

Today marks the beginning of week six of being at home due to the COVID-19 global pandemic. The whole thing is still a bit surreal to me. If someone would have told me two months ago that school would be canceled for the year, professional sports would not be played, churches and temples would be closed, and even the Las Vegas strip would be shut down, I would have laughed in their face. And yet, here we are.

As of today, there are over 2.4 million confirmed cases and 169,000 deaths worldwide. In the US, there are over 750,000 confirmed cases of the virus and 41,400 deaths. New York has been the hardest hit, with over 250,000 cases there alone (crazy!). Most states have some sort of "shelter-in-place" order, though some states are stricter than others. All "non-essential" businesses are closed, including hair and nail salons, dental and orthodontic offices, malls, etc. Grocery stores are still open and have implemented "physical distancing" measures to limit customers and keep people at least 6' apart. Toilet paper is a hot commodity...it literally flies off the shelves as fast as it comes in. I felt like I hit the jackpot at Target early this morning when I scored a 24-roll package...enough to see us through a couple of months at least!

The local schools are doing a great job with their "distance learning" programs. I am grateful that Jack and Grant are the ages they are and have the ability to work independently. There was some early disappointment over not seeing friends and sports being canceled just as the season was beginning, but they've mostly gotten over that and adjusted to the new "normal."

Our daily schedule looks like this:

7:15-8:15     Exercise
8:30-9:15     Breakfast and scripture study/seminary
9:30-12:00   Schoolwork
12:00-12:30 Lunch
1:00-3:30     Schoolwork
3:30-5:30     Free time, outdoor chores
6:00             Dinner
7:00-9:00     Games, TV, etc
9:30             Bedtime

There have been lots of ping-pong games and hops in the pool to break up the monotony of the day. Over the weekend, Steve and Jack created two golf holes on the side yard. I am grateful for plenty of open space at our house to enjoy the outdoors and not feel confined in any way.

We haven't been to church since March 7. Jack and Grant have administered the sacrament ordinance in our home each week, and then we've been doing online ZOOM meetings with the Snow and LaPlante families. It is nice to share spiritual insights and feel like we are still nurturing our spirits even though we are unable to gather together with our ward. I really miss the temple...after a year of attending the temple weekly, it definitely has left a hole in my soul to not be able to go!

There have been some big blessings through this experience, in spite of the inconvenience of it all. With Olivia recently home from her mission, it has been such a gift to have all three kids under one roof for what is likely the last time. A few weeks before Olivia got home, I was feeling sad that our boys were so busy with school and sports that they wouldn't have much time to spend with Olivia before she went back to school. To have everything come to a screeching halt has meant endless family time with games, laughter, talking, and dinners together...all of which have brought us closer. The boys are having a great time together and it just feels like a huge blessing to have this time together so close to Jack leaving home (and Olivia leaving home again!).

I try not to get too anxious about the economic effects of all of this, or the government taking so much away from us. There are all kinds of conspiracy theories circulating on the news and social media and it is easy to get sucked into the rabbit hole. I am naturally a very trusting and optimistic person and so I don't want to think or believe that there are any ulterior motives behind what is happening...but time will tell! In the meantime, I'll just take lots of deep breaths and focus on what I can control, not what I can't!

Ping-pong is great stress relief, haha!

I've been sewing masks to donate to hospitals and friends...the public is encouraged to wear a face-covering in public. 

We took an impromptu drive up to the snow one day...this is I80 East, normally packed with Tahoe traffic. The roads were empty! We found a little place to pull off the road and play in the snow!



We were supposed to be in Maui, boogie-boarding on the beach. Instead, we ended up boogie-boarding in the snow!


"Snow Angels"


Time together with these three is priceless!


Olivia has shared some of her Filipino cuisine with us!

Since hair salons are closed, we've had to resort to home haircuts for the boys. Thanks to YouTube for the tutorials, haha!

Whitaker Golf Club, open for business!

The pool isn't very warm yet, but it's not stopping the boys from getting in!

Our version of "American Gothic", following moving and spreading 12 loads of wood chips!

Grant was the tractor driver, since his knee is making it hard to walk.