Monday, August 22, 2011

Be careful what you wish for...

Tomorrow is the first day of school. I was halfway dreading it, mostly because Grant is starting kindergarten, and I wasn't quite ready to let him go.

Today, we went to kindergarten orientation at the school. Grant got to meet his teacher, spend some time in his classroom, and get a feel for what school will be like. It was great. He was happy. I only shed a tear or two as he walked away from me, then I was happy too.

Afterwards, he raced out to the playground with Jack and Olivia. A little while later, Olivia came running and told me Grant had fallen and was screaming and couldn't move his arm.

We spent 4 long hours in the ER.


Grant was not a very happy camper, but was super cooperative, even in a ton of pain.

X-rays showed he has a broken humerus...which really isn't humorous at all. The ER doc set his arm in a temporary splint and sent us on our way.


We got in to see an orthopedic specialist this afternoon. Because of the location and severity of the fracture, Grant will need surgery to place pins in the bones to help it heal properly. We are scheduled for 5pm tomorrow.

I know I wished that he wasn't heading off to kindergarten quite yet, but this really wasn't what I had in mind!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Five

This guy is now officially five years old. FIVE! How did that happen?


Where did the time go? I know that phrase is over-used. But I really feel it . . . five years have passed, yet there are moments when I can still smell his newness, feel his innocence, and taste the sweetness that accompanies a newborn baby. Of course, I also vaguely recall the sleepless nights, leaking body parts (his and mine!), crying (again, his and mine!), and the feeling that my body would never be my own again!

At five, Grant measures 42" tall and weighs 43 lbs. He is solid as a rock.


He is rarely seen fully dressed. He'd go naked all day, every day if I'd let him.


He knows all the words to Bruno Mars' song "Grenade" and belts them out at the top of his lungs anytime the song comes on. He is especially good at the "For Ya" parts of the song.

He's even mastered the rock-star "faux-hawk" look!

He swims better than me. Seriously—and I was a pretty decent swimmer in my day. This kid has potential.


He tackles everything he does with incredible gusto. There are no half-hearted attempts at anything.




He has no fear. He'll be the one caught jumping off the roof, racing motorcycles, or crossing a tight rope between two sky scrapers. Steve won't let me watch him play outside anymore because I gasp and shriek too much at the stuff he does.



He is as stubborn as a mule. I've had to revamp my mommy-game to figure out what makes him tick, and I'm still figuring it out!


He starts kindergarten in 2 weeks. Bring on the champagne, and a case of kleenex. I have a feeling I'll be needing them both.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Lessons learned while underwater

"Swimmers take your mark, get set . . ."


"And GO!"

We just wrapped up our fifth summer on swim team. I have friends (actually, lots of them), who think we are insane to dedicate 3+ months each year to swimming. Daily practices (now spanning 2 hours because of the kids' ages) and meets every Saturday from 6am to noon take up a good chunk of our time.

While we may be just a little insane, we have also watched our kids blossom through the experience. Here are just some of the things we love about swim team:

It teaches the importance of teamwork. Swimming is both an individual and a team sport. Every single swimmer helps contribute to the overall success and ranking of the team, yet with the exception of relays, swimmers are competing individually. Even if a swimmer doesn't "win" a race, they can improve their own personal time.

Jack's medley relay team worked hard to stay together,
and ended up with a gold medal at the league championships!

It builds endurance and personal strength. In addition to the increased physical stamina gained by swimming laps for 30-45 minutes every single day, emotional strength is gained as well. The kids learn to overcome fears, to push themselves beyond what they thought they could do, and are rewarded for their accomplishments.

Case in point, every Wednesday, kids in the 10 and under age groups are challenged to an "Animal Swim". Depending on age and ability, they swim varying lengths and strokes without taking a breath. For the kids under age 6 (that was Grant this year!), they must swim freestyle from the deep end of the pool to the black line (about 3/4 the length of a 25m pool) without taking a single breath. Once they reach that point, they can try for the whole length of the pool. Then, they move on to the butterfly stroke, again swimming the entire length of the pool without a breath.

Last year, Jack tried all season to make it to the end of the pool, and couldn't do it. He was sad, but determined that this year, he'd do it. The very first week of morning practice, the coaches asked Jack to "demo" the Animal Swim. He'd never made it before, and I could tell he was nervous about it, especially with all the other kids watching.

He made it on the very first try this year. When he got out of the water, he said over and over "I just can't believe I made it!"



Over the course of the next several weeks, Jack kept trying to make it in butterfly, and Grant tried to make it to the black line. Each week, they came a little closer, until the very last Wednesday . . . when both boys made it! Their reward? A bag of animal crackers at our end-season-banquet, thunderous applause, and a whole lot of pride!


The kids learn to take encouragement from others. Our coaches are unbelievable. They're the reason we haven't joined a team closer to home. The way they uplift, motivate, and acknowledge the kids is amazing.

Early on in the season, Grant had a bit of stage fright when it came to the meets. He did fine in practice, but come line up on Saturday morning, he wanted nothing to do with it. Coach Frank gently and firmly coached Grant along, cracking jokes, calming his fears, and getting him pumped up to swim. It worked.


A couple of weeks before the end of the season, the coaches pulled us aside and asked if we thought Grant would be okay swimming at championships. 1200 swimmers, and an all-day event gave us pause . . . but in the end, we agreed. He was the only 4 year old in the entire league swimming at championships. We weren't sure what Grant's reaction would be when he saw the gigantic pool with the sides lined by all the people. But with Coach Frank (aka The Jolly Green Giant) by his side (and the promise of chocolate when he was done), that little shark dove in and swam with all his might.


It gives us something to laugh about. Rarely a practice or meet went by that we weren't laughing out loud about something—most often something Grant said or did. Here's just a few snapshots:

Still not quite sure what Grant is doing here.
Maybe tucking in his swimsuit strings—or maybe something else!

This swim start was the photo winner of the season. I laugh every time I see it!

Grant's "snake eyes" goggles hid his eyes from view, and so we could never quite read what was going on in that mind of his. He loved them though, and said they gave him super powers. Whatever it takes!

It builds friendships. Both kids have made great friends through our association with the families on swim team.

Jack and his teammate Joe have swam together the last three years. They are neck and neck as far as times go, and both push each other to be better. At the beginning of the season, they weren't talking much to each other, or really even acknowledging each other's presence. When I asked Jack why, he replied "It's because he's my arch enemy." Jack didn't want to get too friendly for fear of losing his focus, and getting beat! As the season progressed however, these two were unstoppable. Not just in the pool, but out of the pool as well.

"I am Hans" and "I am Franz" and "We are here to PUMP YOU UP!"


We've known Jordan through a mutual friend for several years. But this was her first year on our team, and she and Olivia became fast friends. It was fun for them both to have someone to hang out with!



It's family-oriented. Coaches, parents, and kids all work together to make swimming a success. Meets are run by volunteers, and parental involvement is required. We got to spend 6 hours every Saturday morning together as a family. No TV, no distractions (except for the snack bar), just us (and 100 other families!) hanging out together, cheering each other on.


It really was about the snack bar—there was no end to the treats and junk the boys craved on Saturday mornings!

I should have made a sign for Grant to wear that said "Will swim for food..."




Congratulating Olivia after winning her heat and getting
her own personal best at Championships!

The kids are rewarded for their efforts. In addition to visits to the snack bar, the kids receive ribbons for each and every race at each and every meet. Over the course of the season, with three kids, we've amassed quite a collection!



Jack finished the season with two gold medals and a silver medal. His free relay team and medley relay team both took first place, and Jack won the silver for the 8 & under butterfly race.


Grant and Olivia were both heat winners, and helped score points for the team.


We've gone through withdrawals some this week, missing the daily drive to, and the time spent at, the pool. While it is nice to have a break, the kids are already asking how long until swim team starts again!



Thursday, July 7, 2011

The rest of the story...

Our voyage up north was timed around a short break for the kids from swim team, and my brother Shepard's return to the mainland. We road-tripped it, splitting the drive into two days.

Any hesitations I had in buying a car with a built-in TV/DVD player and rear entertainment center completely disappeared on this trip. The kids rotted their brains watching movies and playing on the iPad for the entire 635 miles each way. They likely used up their allocated "screen time" from now til Christmas.


On the way up, we stayed overnight in Grants Pass, Oregon. We got a cheap room in a hotel with a pool. The kids thought they were staying at the Ritz.


In addition to celebrating Jack's 8th birthday and baptism, we had several mini family reunion of sorts over the course of our stay.

My brother Shepard and his wife Breanne are home from their year-long dental residency in Hawaii, and are getting ready to embark on a year-long adventure to India and Europe. We hadn't seen them in 2 years, so there were lots of hugs and catching up.

Are they not the most gorgeous couple ever?

We had a great family dinner at my mom's house on Saturday night. Both my brothers were there, along with Isaac's in-laws, who were in town for the baptism. Great food, lots of laughter, and cousins playing like crazy!

While I may be the "oldest" sister, I am certainly not the "biggest"!


My mom and David, with her three kids, spouses, and 6 grandkids!


We headed down to Silverton to my dad's house on Sunday afternoon. Sunday night, we went to the St. Paul Rodeo. This small town has a population of about 350. More than 10,000 people were in attendance at the rodeo Sunday night! It was crazy! The kids loved it, and it was the real deal—bucking broncos, bull-riding, and calf roping.


On Monday, the 4th of July, Ike & Lisa, Shep & Bre, Bob & Hae, and Jahmez were all over. There was lots of lounging about and enjoying the sunshine.

Jack & Canyon took a break from the craziness to hang out on the hammock.

There was also a whole lot more great food, more laughter, and a Slip & Slide!

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After an early dinner, the kids set out on a scavenger hunt to locate the hidden "treasure"—a big box of fireworks!

Although the sun wasn't even close to going down, at 7:00 the show began.




Then it was time for a one-man circus . . . starring Isaac.


The weather was perfect all week, and it was fantastic to spend so much time with my amazing family!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

A Day To Remember

Jack is 8 years old today. It doesn't quite seem possible.


He has grown by leaps and bounds in the last year. Not just physically, but emotionally as well. He is kind, thoughtful, helpful, and loving. He loves to snuggle, has a contagious smile, and is exceptionally strong, athletic, and coordinated. He loves Legos, playing Wii, and can't get enough swimming.


Jack and his cousin Canyon are just a couple of months apart in age, Canyon turned 8 in April. As we were planning our summer trip to Oregon, we started talking about how special it would be for the boys to be baptized together. As we tried to coordinate our travel plans, the only time we could hold the baptism was on Jack's actual birthday...super exciting for him, but planning a baptism on a Tuesday afternoon presents a few challenges. My amazing sister-in-law Lisa was a trooper and managed to pull things together.

All dressed and ready to go . . .

Both boys were baptized and confirmed members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints by their grandpas—Jack by his Grandpa Davy, and Canyon by his Grandpa Paul.


Canyon's grandma Julie gave a talk about the Holy Ghost, and presented each boy with a super cozy, snuggly blanket—a reminder of how the Holy Ghost is our Comforter, and can keep us warm and safe throughout our lives.

Even in the 85 degree heat, the boys couldn't help but wrap themselves up!

Jack and his Grandpa Davy have a sweet and special relationship.

Grammy Deanna & Grandpa Davy love these boys!

I can't believe how grown up the kids are . . . and love Grant's "James Durbin" faux-hawk!

After the baptism, we all headed to Grandpa Kurt's house for a special birthday/baptism celebration dinner.




After dinner, it was present time!

Jack was excited to get his first pair of real golf shoes!

These 5 boys are all super close in age.
I can only imagine the adventures and mischief they'll create as they grow up!


We are blessed to have such an amazing and loving extended family. While all might not share the same religious beliefs, the warmth, support, and love felt throughout the day was overwhelming. I know this birthday will be etched forever in our memories!